Long distance relationship

Distance. What is 'Distance'? It means so little when someone means so much to you. However, the longest period of time is waiting for something or someone you truly want, right?
So, look, everyday, every single day on the planet, millions and millions of people got no choice but to deal with being miles apart from their loved ones.

From soldiers fighting for freedom in a foreign land, with loved ones worrying about them back home,to high school sweethearts pursuing college degrees in separate and distant universities,we are all in the same 'trouble'. No matter who or what you are, no one is really excused when it comes to the obstacles posed by being in a long distance relationship. So ,we all ask each other for the answer, can long distance relationships work? Let me tell you, of course it can, but it's not about Destiny, it's all about you two, It always has been.
There are couple of things, problems, we all face it.First of all are Snubbing naysayers.Like all those millions and millions of people above, I too had to deal with a long distance relationship problems. The sad truth is no one really bothers to acknowledge the difficulties of keeping up a long distance relationship – people think it’s downright absurd and is bound for a breakup anyway. You keep not thinking about what they say, but it's always that easy, is it? You know what I mean if you are involved in such kind of a relationship: your parents, best friends, co-workers or classmates might have told you time and again that it’s never going to work. But that’s not true. In fact, there are a lot of things you can do to keep your long distance relationship fiery and strong. At least, you can give your best to IGNORE them all. That's not stubbornness, that's how your mind should listen to your heart.
Second, try to look at this as a big CHALLENGE in your life, something what will get you more experienced, involve you in kind of a risk, but with a big,big outcome! There’s a certain advantage to being miles away from your loved ones. Couples who got the advantage of meeting up with one another frequently somewhat fail to count their blessings after some time. But in your case, you have every reason to defy distance, to keep the connection alive, and to look forward to seeing each other like it’s the most important thing in the world! Go on man! Maintain the long distance relationship, and prove everybody wrong. You gotta know, long distance is kinda test to see how far your love can travel. Thanks to Facebook, Skype, ooVoo or MSN, keeping in touch with your sweetheart abroad is not as expensive as other modes of communication in the past. So there’s no reason for you to subscribe to that rubbish “distance makes the heart forget”! You can exchange e-mails, chat and call each other. You may send flying kisses via webcams or flood each other’s social networking site with sweet nothings!
Aaah, long distance relationships may sound unusual and challenging , but it’s not impossible! If you want to keep the relationship, then no one or nothing should persuade you to do otherwise, not your family and friends, and most especially not the distance.
You are not alone. I was once there. Millions and millions of people all around the world find it no problem. And so can you!
But, if you were recently in a long distance relationship break up, and need some break up advice you came to the right place! I'll tell you something...THE worst thing you could do right now is panic and start begging, pleading and telling your ex how much this break up hurts you, why? Because this will only confirm their decision that this is the best for both of you, especially you.
If you have been dumped you have to learn how to think with your head and not with your heart, you gotta move on. You're a human too, you forgot that?!?

Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough...

Love finds a way!




 








 

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